Isaac’s First 3 Days of Life (brace yourselves!)

November 19, 2008 at 8:38 pm

Well, now that you’ve seen Isaac’s pictures from his birthday, we have to break a little news. Luckily for everyone reading this, the ‘bad’ news is now offset by fantastic news, so please read on without fear!

Isaac was born (at 2:33am) with lots of mucous in his mouth and throat. He kept coughing it up and we had to suction him out a lot. By the time he was 5 hours old, I got a little more concerned about the mucous and sent him to the nursery for investigation. Within an hour, our pediatrician, a nurse, and the hospital’s neonatologist came into the room to talk about what they were seeing. They wanted to take him up to the Neonatal Intensive Care Unit (NICU) to monitor him, get him on antibiotics to protect from pneumonia, and just see what was up. This was very difficult news for Jason and I to handle because we were so looking forward to being with him non-stop, but we knew it was best and sent him right on up.

Within a few hours, the neonatologist, Dr. Vebert, came back and explained what she suspected was the problem. She had done chest xrays to reveal that his esophagus and trachea had defects. She diagnosed it as TEF (Tracheoesophageal fistula). This defect requires surgery and she recommended he be transferred immediately to St. Christopher’s Hospital for Children in North Philadelphia. The good news was that ALL of his other vitals were perfect, including his respiration, heart rate, blood pressure, blood counts, and oxygen. He’d already had his first bowel movement only 30 minutes after being born! [Jason: and then peed on the nurse.]

We got ourselves ready and went up to spend a short time with Isaac in the nursery. They let me and Dad hold him while we were up there. The grandparents were allowed in to see him too. The transfer ambulance came around 2:00pm and Joe from St. Chris’ packed Isaac up in his little bed and took him on his first car ride to the city of brotherly love.

Jason and his family left Reading right away to get down and be with Isaac. I stayed at the hospital, waiting to get the OK from my obstetrician, Dr. Peterson, that I could leave the hospital early. He said yes, and I left the hospital around 7:00pm the same day Isaac was born (11/16).

Jason met with the head surgeon at St. Chris’, Dr. Prasad, on Sunday (11/16) evening and discussed his case. Dr. Prasad told him that he wanted to personally do the surgery and had traded another case with a surgeon so that he could accommodate Isaac.

You can read more about TEF here, but basically, Isaac had the Type-C, which meant that the surgeon had to go in and detach a branch connecting Isaac’s stomach and trachea. This branch was then connected to his esophagus, which previously ended in a dead end. (Dr. Prasad did a sketch that we’ll try to upload.)

There was some uncertainty as to how large the gap was between the top of Isaac’s esophagus and the part connected to his stomach. If the gap was too large (and some x-rays indicated that it might be), the surgeons would do some “tricks” to encourage growth and then try the operation again in 3 months. Isaac would need a feeding tube implanted. If the gap was small enough, they could attach it now and no further surgery would be needed.

Dr. Prasad stressed that Isaac was not in immediate danger. He basically just couldn’t eat. But with modern medical science, people (including babies) can get by fine on IVs. It was important that other tests be done to see if there were other complications that might need to be addressed before surgery and that the surgery was done with a fresh team. That said, they still were able to schedule surgery for the next day, Monday (11/17). (All of Isaac’s tests were coming back A+)

Monday morning, I arrived at St. Chris’ with my family, and Jason and I spent some time with Isaac before he was taken into surgery at 11:00am.

The surgery began around 12:30pm and Isaac was out around 3:30pm. Dr. Prasad came and found us all in the waiting room, with his two thumbs up to let us all know that Isaac’s surgery had the best possible outcome and was a complete success.

We’ve never been happier in our entire lives. In only one day this little guy became the most important thing in our lives, and we were so relieved to hear that he was okay.

Isaac is recovering phenomenally. He has had very little pain medication (everyone is impressed), and is mostly cycling between active, happy awake time and peaceful sleep. He’s being fed through IV fluids and can’t eat anything until after a (swallow) test next Monday! Today we began to see the profound pain a body goes through when suffering from hunger. We’re comforting him with words, songs, kung-fu, and gentle cradling. He can’t be moved from his bed, but we are placing a gentle hand under his head and just simulating the full-body rocking movements that will soothe a baby.

Jason and I are holding it together through the AMAZING support of our immediate family. They have all put their lives on hold to be there to take care of our every need and we are eternally grateful for their love.

Everyone is very worried about me, since most moms get a few days to recover from the demands of labor in a cushy hospital environment. I’m healing well and taking naps when I can. Even though Isaac can’t yet eat, we’re storing up all of my pumped breast milk for him to enjoy as soon as he is allowed. The NICU staff is very interested in keeping me pumping so that Isaac gets all the benefits of mother’s milk, and they’ve probably frozen about 30 bottles with just a few tiny drops of milk in them. I’m starting to flow a bit more every day, so the fruits of my efforts are much more evident and keep me motivated to continue pumping even if it makes me feel a bit like a machine.

Right now, his prognosis is EXCELLENT and he’s expected to need to stay in the hospital for around 3 weeks. Jason and I are staying at the Philadelphia Ronald McDonald House which is right on the hospital campus within a short walk (even for a 3-days postpartum woman) to our baby boy. We’re able to stay here until Friday and will then likely get back in on Sunday night. Keep your fingers crossed! After Sunday night, we will hopefully not have to leave again until 24 hours after Isaac is discharged from the hospital.

Please post comments with any questions you have about Isaac’s current status. We’re too overwhelmed to take calls, but comments on the blog are the perfect way to show your support and love.

And, one more thing you can do, please support Ronald McDonald House Charities. We all pass that donation box at the drive thru, so next time, throw a few coins in and know that you’re supporting people like Jason and myself, who have found an amazing resource that gives so much to so many during such a challenging time.

Peace and love to everyone,
Kim (a.k.a. Mommy)

16 Responses to “Isaac’s First 3 Days of Life (brace yourselves!)”

  1. Lizzie says:

    I’m so glad to hear that everything is okay. I’ve had you guys and Isaac in my thoughts. When things have calmed down I’d love to touch base on the phone.

    Congratulations, and I am SO happy for you – new Mom and Dad!

    Isaac is adorable!!!!

    Love,
    Lizzie

  2. Stacy says:

    Hi guys,

    I’ve been thinking about you constantly since Jason sent out his first email yesterday. I’m so sorry for everything you’ve had to go through but I’m so glad to hear that Isaac is doing as well as he can be given the circumstances. Thanks for taking time out during this incredibly stressful time to keep all your friends and family updated. I love Isaac so much already and I’m so proud of you guys for being so strong during all of this. You are amazing and I love you! I can’t wait to meet Isaac and until then I’ll be hoping and praying that his recovery is quick and as painless as possible.

    Stacy

  3. Ward Kadel says:

    Hi Kim and Jason,

    Wow, what a scary ordeal!!! I’m so sorry that all three of you had to go through this. Beth and my thoughts are with you guys and we’ll stay updated here. Thank you for the email!

  4. Jose says:

    Hi Kim and Jason,

    Wow!

    First – congratulations! Second, keep focused on the day when you’re all together – enjoying sleepless nights at home!

    We will keep Isaac and the two of you in consistent prayer.

    God Bless,
    Jose & Carolina

  5. Kim & Anthony Maffei says:

    Kim & Jason,
    Thanks for the update. I’m so sorry you all had to go through that, I remember what it was like to be a new parent (13 years ago) that in itself is over whelming. I’m so very gald to hear that Isaac is doing great and is in good hands. What a lucky boy to have you both as parents! Take good care of yourselves and eachother, and a continued awesome recovery for Isaac!

    Sending out good vibes to you!
    Kim (& Anthony) Maffei

  6. Sheara Wilensky says:

    Hi Kim & Jason!

    Leave it to you guys to start a blog for Isaac right away! Ha. I love it. I am so happy to hear that everything is fine now with the baby’s health. Isaac is a beautiful addition to your family and I wish you all the best!

  7. Mirna & Nelson Soto says:

    Kim & Jason:

    Congratulations!! God has blessed you with a beautiful and strong Angel. The Lord has protected him and will continue to do so. He will fill you and your family with strength to continue on this new stage in your lives. We will keep all of you in our prayers.
    God Bless you!
    Mirna & Nelson Soto

  8. bo says:

    It sounds as if the docs have got it under control. All best wishes to you and Isaac and his forthcoming introduction to mother’s milk. He’s already been introduced to mother’s (and father’s) love.

    Bo

  9. Bruce says:

    Kim,

    Jason has kept me posted. Again, congratulations, PHEW!, and happy recovery to Isaac.

    Chuck’s and my thoughts are with you all

    Bruce

  10. Laura & Tim Pappas says:

    I’m glad to hear that things are trending up for you and Isaac. We’re keeping all 3 of you (and your family) in our thoughts and I can’t wait to hear that he’s back home with you and we can come and meet the little guy.

  11. avi says:

    kim, jason –

    congratulations! we were so glad that to hear that isaac is doing well!

    kindly send us your mailing address when you have the chance ;-)

    best,
    avi

  12. Lucinda says:

    Wow – so glad to hear everything is working out fine. Keep up the pumping – it’s the best thing for him and for you and it will be extra-special once you can cuddle and nurse him.

  13. Quoc says:

    Jason & Kim,

    I’m glad Isaac’s doing well again and I’m sorry that you had to go through this. I hope you two are relieved and well.

  14. Quoc says:

    Jason & Kim,

    I’m glad Isaac’s doing well again and I’m sorry that you had to go through this. Hopefully nothing else as scary as this will happen again. Take care and hopefully I can talk to you guys soon.

    Quoc

  15. Kevin says:

    Hi Jason,

    We need to share more pictures! Isaac looked really great today.

    We are all praying for all of you.

    Kevin

  16. Rachel Creel says:

    Jason, Kim, and Isaac – Just wanted to send my well wishes to your fam. Sounds like the little guy is quite a fighter. I hope you get to bring him home soon!

    Rachel Creel

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